Stay off your phone while walking to and from your car
Looking at your phone signals distraction and vulnerability. Keep your phone pocketed while walking. Have your keys ready before you reach your car so you're not fumbling. If you need to check your phone, do it inside or once you're locked in your car.
Park strategically
Choose spaces near entrances, elevators, and security cameras. Avoid parking next to vans or trucks with sliding doors (limits escape options). In parking garages, the first floor near the elevator is generally safer than upper floors. Back into spaces when possible — it allows a faster exit.
Scan the area before you get out and before you return
Before exiting: scan the immediate area for anyone loitering. When returning: do a quick scan before you approach — look for anyone sitting in nearby cars or standing without apparent purpose. If something feels wrong, return to the store or building and ask for a security escort.
Leave nothing visible in your car
Smash-and-grab theft is common in parking lots. Don't leave bags, electronics, or valuables visible — even for a few minutes. Put items in the trunk before reaching your destination. A gym bag on a seat is enough to trigger a break-in. Aim for "nothing to steal" visibility.
Ask for a security escort if you feel unsafe
Most shopping malls, large retailers, hospitals, and universities have security personnel who will escort you to your car if you ask. Ask at customer service or the security desk. This is a free, standard service. There is no embarrassment in using it — it's exactly what security is there for.
Know how to respond to a confrontation
If confronted by someone demanding your keys or wallet: your property is not worth your safety. Hand over what they ask for — your primary goal is to get away safely. Back away, do not turn your back. Once at a safe distance, call 911 immediately. If someone attempts to force you into a vehicle, law enforcement guidance is to fight, scream, and resist in that moment — do not allow yourself to be taken to a secondary location.
Report poor lighting and security hazards
Burned-out lights, broken cameras, and hidden alcoves in parking structures are not just your problem — they're liability issues for the property owner. Report them to management. Many states have premises liability laws that hold property owners responsible for maintaining safe conditions. Your report protects others too.
Night vs. Day
Risk increases significantly at night. Park closest to the entrance under lights. Consider having someone walk out with you. Park near where store employees park — those areas typically have better lighting and oversight.
ATMs in Parking Lots
Avoid standalone ATMs in parking lots — they're prime robbery locations. Use drive-through ATMs or those inside banks/stores. If you must use a standalone ATM, go during daylight hours with someone else.
The Stranger Approach
If a stranger approaches you, you can be helpful from a distance. You don't need to move closer. Step back rather than forward. If they need a phone or directions, point toward the store entrance.
Keys Between Fingers Myth
Holding keys between your fingers is ineffective as a defensive tool and can injure you. A personal alarm (loud, draws attention) or pepper spray (where legal) are more practical self-defense options for this environment.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are parking garages safer than surface lots?
It depends. Multi-story garages have enclosed spaces but often have cameras, call boxes, and patrols. Surface lots have better visibility but less oversight. Either way: stay alert, park near lights and cameras, and avoid distractions.
What if someone is following me in the parking lot?
Don't go to your car — it isolates you. Walk toward the building entrance, people, or security. Vary your pace to confirm you're being followed. If confirmed, enter a store immediately and call 911 or ask staff to call security.
Should I check the back seat before getting in my car?
Yes — briefly. While rare, hiding in back seats does occur, particularly in large isolated garages. It takes two seconds. Keeping your car locked at all times is the primary prevention.